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This year Youth Week in NSW announced
their partnership with NSW Health for National Youth Week 2015, running from
10-19 April. Their website advises that governments across Australia are
committed to improving sexual health outcomes and are making every effort to
inform young people how to prevent sexually transmissible infections (STIs).
However, the website states that they have stopped short at addressing the
cause of the problem.
It is suggested that the
proliferation of online pornography is compounding the problems associated with
promiscuity. This article reports a surprising advocate for a pornography-free
society, while asserting that knowledge of our mental and spiritual nature
gives the ability to be an agent for change within ourselves and in the wider
community.
Who’d have thought that the clearest voice to raise concerns about the
film “Fifty Shades of Grey” would belong to Russell Brand?”
In an honest and heartfelt video Brand said he didn’t like
the way he felt about himself after watching pornography. So, instead, he’s
trying to blaze a trail in learning how to close the laptop and turn off, what
he calls, the “waves of filth.”
“This cloud of pornographic information … is making it
impossible for us to relate to our sexuality and our own psychology and our own
spirituality,” Brand said. “It’s jarring and distracting… (and) really
difficult to remain connected to truth.”
Brand is clued-in to the fact that pornography has
stealthily entered the conversation, in the media and on social media, and is
proliferating like some socially infectious disease. But like many today, he
became “infected” by it when he was young and most impressionable.
He cites the latest research which found
watching porn leads to an exaggerated perception of sex in society, diminishes
trust between couples, results in abandoning hope of sexual monogamy and
promotes the belief that promiscuity is a natural state.
While trying to tackle the harmful effects porn has had in
his own life, Brand has become a change-agent for a healthier society. He is
joining the groundswell of people tuning into this spiritual millennium.
Each generation gets the opportunity to come to their own
conclusions about the place of sexuality in life. Back in the ‘60s and ‘70s
most young people were caught up to some degree in the ideals of the hippy
generation. Some of those ideals have certainly left a positive legacy, but the
so-called “sexual revolution” proved to many that sex for sex’s sake was not all
it was cracked up to be.
Instead, we eventually discovered we could only find truth
and happiness in a relationship that was built on honesty, loyalty, selfless
giving and care for our partner’s happiness … all of which I have come to
consider to be divine qualities.
We needed to upgrade our thinking to acknowledge our
mental and spiritual side, just like Brand advocates.
At the end of the 19th century - an era
that has recently been losing some of its reputation as strait-laced - a shrewd
observer of human nature commented on the less overt but similar problems of
her day.
“In the present or future, some extra throe of error may
conjure up a new-style conjugality, which...severs the marriage covenant, puts
virtue in the shambles, and coolly notifies the public of broken vows,” wrote
Mary Baker Eddy, adding that this would fly in the face of “...common law,
common sense, and common honesty...”
That honesty, the noted thought-leader wrote, “is
spiritual power”, because it has its source in the divine Mind.
She also made the connection between such spiritual
thinking and how healthy and content we are - doing better when we take a step
away from the human reasoning which chooses paths that seem easier
or more self-satisfying, to be guided instead by motives like honesty and love.
Like Albert Einstein, she laboured to “know
God’s thoughts,” eventually leaving behind a life of sickness and dead-ends as
this deeper understanding of divine reality dawned on her.
In my own life, I’ve found her book Science and Health unlocks a
life-changing view of men and women as actually being the sons and daughters of
God, the divine Mind.
When we’re awake to this spiritual nature of ourselves and
others, the need to objectify women or to allow ourselves to be objectified, to
seek women as trophies to validate masculinity or to allow ourselves to be used
in that way can no longer motivate us. And the temptation to seek out porn will
fade away. We won’t spend hours locked away, wasting opportunities to climb a
mountain, cook a meal, become a volunteer or laugh with friends.
The truth is that we each have an inherent spiritual
strength to enable us to shut that laptop down when we need to.
This article was published on Online Opinion.
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